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Sizing Success: How to Choose the Right Size For Your Wedding gown

Writer's picture: Jackie AvrumsonJackie Avrumson

As a bridal stylist with 25 years of experience, I’ve seen countless brides fall in love with a gown only to face disappointment when the size they ordered doesn’t fit quite right. One of the most crucial aspects of this process is understanding how to choose the right size for your unique body at the time of order to prevent heartbreak and frustration in the alterations process.

Many bridal boutiques stock sample dresses in limited sizes, often a size 8 or 10 (bridal, not street size). While trying on these samples is the fun part, it’s important to remember that these sizes may not represent your true size. A bridal 8 is really equivalent to a US 4, a bridal 10 is equivalent to a US 6 and so on. It’s important to never get caught up in the number and to never order a dress based on how a sample fits you. Let’s deep dive…


The Reality of Sample Dresses

It's crucial to understand that sample dresses in bridal boutiques have often been dry cleaned and tried on numerous times- meaning they can be stretched out, worn down, or altered in ways that affect their fit. This specifically runs true for most trunk show dresses if they’re hot off the runway. Those gowns have been altered and contoured to a specific person (a model) and let’s say the tag says size 6 but you like the fit, that real size 6 may not be right for you when it’s a brand new dress. Because of these factors, relying solely on a sample dress for sizing can lead to disappointment when your special order arrives. Instead, always prioritize the designer's size chart and your own measurements over the sample fit. This approach ensures that you’re ordering a dress that aligns with your true size and gives you the best chance for a finer alterations experience when your gown arrives.


The Importance of Accurate Measurements

Accurate measurements are the cornerstone of achieving your perfect fit. If you are a bride who is choosing their own size and don’t have the opportunity for someone at a store to take those measurements, my best suggestion is to ask a local tailor to do it for you as you don’t want to squeeze tight when taking measurements for the sake of a lower number. Don’t forget to take your height into account, especially if you plan to wear heels on your big day. Once you have your measurements, compare them to the designer’s size chart, as different designers can vary widely in sizing.


When you're in a bridal boutique, it’s essential that your stylist takes the time to show you how your measurements compare to the size chart of the dress you’re considering. This transparency allows you to understand exactly what size is being ordered for you, helping to alleviate any confusion or anxiety about the fit when your dress comes in. By seeing where your measurements fall on the chart, you will have a better understanding where you’ll need alterations, as to not have a shocking experience at your first fitting (which is scary enough). This collaborative approach not only empowers you as a bride but also ensures that you’re confident in your purchase, setting the stage for a smooth and enjoyable dress experience.


Pro Tip: I have a very firm stance on this - please do not order your size based on the sample without looking at a size chart. It is one thing if the store is looking at the chart and comparing the fit on your body to see where there’s a difference to determine the size if you’re in between, but it’s another when you are ordering “blindly”. Save yourself the heartache and don’t do it!


Shape of the Dress Matters

The silhouette of the dress plays a significant role in how it will fit your body. A ball gown may fit differently than a sheath dress, and an A-line gown might be more forgiving than a fitted mermaid style. When you’re trying on dresses, pay attention to how each shape complements your figure. If you’re drawn to a particular silhouette but your measurements suggest a different style, don’t hesitate to communicate this with your stylist. They can help you navigate the options and suggest the type of customizations if necessary.


Bust Size and Support

One of the most common issues brides face is fit around the bust. Your bust size can dramatically affect how a dress sits on your body. If you have a larger bust, consider dresses with built-in support, such as corsetry or structured bodices. You want to look for designers who offer to “open the cup”. Let’s say you measure into a size 10 everywhere but a 14 in the bust because you have been naturally blessed. If you open the cup, it will give you more depth to properly sit in the dress versus creating a wide circumference all around the body. The store in which you are purchasing from should be well equipped on making the right decision regarding sizing, and if they’re on the fence - it never hurts to make a phone call to the designer for their guidance. Always keep in mind what feels comfortable and supportive to you, as you’ll want to feel secure and confident on your wedding day.


Alterations: The Final Touch

Finally, keep in mind that most wedding dresses will require some degree of alteration. A skilled tailor can adjust a dress to better fit your body, ensuring you look and feel amazing on your big day. Budget for these alterations in your overall wedding dress expenses, as they can make all the difference in achieving that perfect fit. When you receive your dress, schedule fitting appointments well in advance to allow for any adjustments, especially if you have a busy wedding timeline.


Pro Tip: Never make assumptions on what your alterations cost will be based on the size that you purchase!


Finding your wedding dress should be a joyful experience, not a source of stress. By keeping these tips in mind, you’ll set yourself up for success and avoid common pitfalls related to sizing. Remember, every bride is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to wedding dresses. Embrace the journey, trust your instincts, and enjoy the process of selecting a gown that reflects your personal style.


Happy dress shopping!



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